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Old Jun 08, 2012, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Idiot17 View Post
I feel like crap, i just read what B. wrote and i just cut and cut. Your feedback was actually very helpful, abd it meant alot to me. It really helped me to know that there was someone else that doesnt trust the way i do. Or the fact about trying t, and believing me cuz nearly no one believes me that i seriously tried it. Saying that you feel my pain and, understand and all that. So you did help me more than you know. Sorry i made it sound ungrateful or smthg, i tend to do that.
I am sorry that you cut. And also if I gave you an impression that I did not care or that you were ungrateful.

You were not ungrateful and I wish you had not had to cut.

I have felt like hurting myself ( and I have, too, hurt myself) when someone needed to keep a distance from me when my condition was really hurting me and I could not hear or go with what they were saying. My actions hurt them and they did not know what to do for me.

I am glad you posted this. I was really worried about you and I really wanted to help. I did not know what else to say besides my own experience. I am glad that I did help.

It's up to us, too, to get better.

Not just our friends or the ones who help.

We help ourselves and others step in, too.

I know it's so hard.

thanks,

Billi
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Thanks for this!
Idiot17