Back 10 years ago I had a severe anger problem. I had no idea how to control it. When my partners and I would argue I was very physical violent with them. To this day I’m surprised I didn’t hurt them worse than I did. I’ve been out of a relationship for sometime now and have learned how to deal with my anger in a healthy manner. I look back and feel so guilty for the pain I put my ex’s through. I took responsibility for my actions and apologized to a couple of my ex’s in person. It felt good they were willing to forgive me. There is one though that I asked her to meet up with me. I felt an apology was better face to face rather than through email. She at first said yes, but then never responded when I asked about a good time. I’m really proud of myself for facing my fears and be willing to apologize, but it still hurts that the opportunity was rejected.