"I am an understanding, generous, patient, caring and reasonable wife, who for some reason unbeknownst to me at this time thought it was a good idea to marry this man."

"I am an understanding, generous, patient, caring and reasonable wife, who for some reason unbeknownst to me at this time thought it was a good idea to marry this man."

"I am an understanding, generous, patient, caring and reasonable wife, who for some reason unbeknownst to me at this time thought it was a good idea to marry this man."

... actually, it REMAINS a good idea to have married this man. He is truly remarkable and worthy of my full respect. I love him without reserve and certainly have no regrets. I just wish this career thing wasn't such a struggle for him I know it isn't easy and having undiagnosed ADD (which I bah-humbugged until recently) made things very difficult for him when everyone else was packing off to college and he couldn't make a decision about what direction he should take. It's a mistake he still lives with, because he remains without direction to this day. His new meds are helping a LOT, and I think with our T's help, he'll find his path. It's just so hard to not do it for him, even though I know that it's the worst thing I could try to do. It's painful to watch someone you love struggle to do something that seems really easy.