My girlfriend is always having mood swings. Really bad mood swings. One day everything is great and the next day I may get something like "I'm not feeling fulfilled,I'm unproductive,I've slowed down again,your not romantic,I feel warm and fuzzy with you but not on fire" then the next day she will be back to talking about wanting to get married. I just don't really know what's going on with her wanting to point out all my flaws,act like she is perfect and then go back to acting like nothing ever happened. It's very frustrating. She's horrible with money. She gets paid every other Friday and by the following Monday her account is negative and she really won't have anything to show for it. She has fits of rage out of nowhere and within a few hours she will be acting like nothing is wrong. Her kids are always coming to me talking about it. They don't even feel like they have a mother because of the way she acts. They feel she is very selfish. Her bills are usually behind. She makes plans and then will break them. I'm positive there is something mentally or chemically wrong but she refuses any kind of treatment and instead looks to things like tarot cards to tell her which direction she should go. The romantic end gets really bad if she has watched a romantic victorian movie or a book. I bought her a book she loves a few days ago not knowing what it was about. Which I should have researched it first because now after reading that book she is quoting things to me from it saying this is what's wrong with us. I'm a very calm person so now it's "An extreme needs an extreme and a calm needs a calm and that's why we are just keeping each other company and not meant for anything long term." then this morning like I said above she was back to her usual self and I just don't know what to do anymore or what to tell her kids. It's taking such a huge toll on me trying to sort through it all. I bought a book called Stop Walking On Eggshells sometime ago and have started reading it and a lot of what it is saying makes sense to me as far as some of her behavior goes. I know I can't do anything if she's not willing to help herself but I really love my girlfriend so I can't walk away either right now. Does anyone have any idea if this is something that could be a disorder or is she just out there so to speak.