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Old Jun 09, 2012, 04:53 PM
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My last break-up was difficult, I lost a 12yr friendship, not just a 2yr relationship, but it made me take a good look at myself. I also grieved after my realization, but I think that's normal, change cAn be traumatic.

That was true for me also, Trippin. Thank you for sharing. In my case, the "grieving" afterwards was necessary and a life changing process. This was something I had to arrive at on my own, sans counseling or therapy, in which I had dealt repeatedly.