I'm female with a female T. I'm lesbian and she's bi; it was important for me to find a T who could understand my worldview, my relationships, my experiences, etc. Prior to her, I'd seen straight female Ts and they just didn't "get it" AT ALL. Their advice was really off the mark. Ignorant in fact. It's like night and day with my current T. I don't have to waste my session explaining things to her; she already gets them because she has had similar experiences. I don't have any issues with sexuality per se, but it's really easy for me to talk to my about sex with my T. I'm pretty open about sex and so is she. In fact, I feel as though I could talk to her about anything-- and probably have done so in the past and will do so again the future. Because of the level of trust I've built with her, I feel no topic is off limits. For me, I know I could never have built that level of trust with a male T, no matter how skilled or experienced. It just wouldn't work for me. I'd never be able to get comfortable. I think selecting a T is a matter of personal preference. You should find the T with who you feel most comfortable; the T with whom you can be the most open, honest, and relaxed. Good luck in your search!