Radorix, Fooze is right on. If your GF won't even see someone, I don't know what you can do. Nobody can diagnose someone from a distance. Are you getting any support from this relationship or are you there just for the kids? How long have the two of you been together?

While it's great to try to figure out what's going on, the bottom line is that each one of us is in charge of the decisions we make to get or not get treatment to make things better. And you're in charge of the decision as to whether you're willing to stay if she refuses to get help. Not easy, and I feel for you. If it were me, I'd keep pressing for her to see someone. Can't hurt, might help!

Anne