Thanks for that Leed.
I dont want to disagree, but I know she was not that sick at that time and now I know that she had cut off all communication from the aged care facility and from our parents one year prior..
We all lived within a five minute drive from one another and she drove past my home the day before to go grocery shopping.
My point is I dont know how I should feel.
Angry? Yes. Upset that she is gone? Yes. Angry they didnt come? Yes. Angry we were not told? Yes.
Unsure whether she heard me or understood what I was saying? That I am unsure of.