Honestly, it sounds like you are running away from your current T, maybe the need or acceptance or closeness? That sounds avoidant which is what this other T says he wouldn't want to collude in. I would guess that if avoiding whatever it is about your current T is what is going on, you may find yourself in exactly the same predicament with a different T down the road. Maybe you need to work with your current T to explore why you are doing this. Then, if it is still sounding a like a good move, with your eyes and feelings clear and open, you sound like you might have a decent T lined up down the road.