Quote:
Originally Posted by carly011
I hate my T because she makes me do things i dont want to. And she refuses to let me just give up and sit silently. She doesn't take my "im fines" and "i dont know's" she keeps pushing till she gets an answer. I try to convince her I dont have an ED...yeah she doesnt believe me and i still have to go to the assessment  I hate that she can ALWAYS tell when something is wrong, i'm lying, or i'm not telling her something. I am way to easy to read 
Oh why oh why can't she just cooperate for once  |
Wonder if your T gives you the same look mine gives me when I say "I am fine". What does fine mean anyway - to me it means good enough and in order to have made it to T's session, understood his questions and offered an answer, to me tells me I am good enough at that point - maybe I should start saying that instead "T I am good enough right now" - wonder what response that will invoke
I am wondering whether the times that we hate them are the times that they hit the nail on the head, or manage to wobble our otherwise controlled stance - maybe this is when some deep work is getting done?