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Old Jun 10, 2012, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Venomous View Post
Actually, I happen to agree more with my T, because while loving oneself is helpful, I find it almost impossible to produce feelings of love for myself when nobody else loves me. My T says that self-love is not created entirely from repeating positive mantras but through a reflection of who we are by those around us.

As far as I can tell it won't happen again. I can't live the nest 50 years of my life on false hope.
I don't know about that. I don't believe at all in "positive mantras" but I believe that you can do things to give yourself a higher opinion of yourself. If you volunteered at a homeless shelter or visited with the elderly or got involved in animal rescue... something that helps make the world a better pllace...would those acts increase your self esteem and make you feel more worthwhile and lovable?