I don't think predators change; I'm just open to being proven wrong. My boyfriend opened my mind to this. I have been abused, but not sexually abused. Sexually harassed, yes, but not sexually abused.

Yes, some of you are misinterpreting things I say, because you're saying I said things I never did.

Let me ask you about this...and this is real, not a "what if"...

Do you believe in sleep sex? Do you believe a man can molest a child or have sex with a woman without her consent while he's asleep? And he not be aware of it, upon waking? This has actually happened, and I've been with a man who sleep-sexed. There have been cases where this has happened. So, is a man a sexual predator if he's asleep when he commits his crimes? I know stories of men who were convicted or found not guilty for this.