Just got back from vacation.

Your post gave me some things to think about. I guess (in looking back at my post) what I really wanted to know is if there is some way to bring back a specific answer from all alters as to whether either of my parents s*x*ally abused me. I don't think that there is a safe way to do that.

I don't currently suspect that anything is going on over there. I just know that I would be devastated if one of my parents did something bad to dd because I *should* be able to know them better than anyone else and *should* be able to know if they are safe or not. But, I really don't have that knowledge. I can't remember sooo much of my childhood.

One thing that you mentioned that I didn't even know about is Grandparents Rights. It is good to know about it so that if I do see anything unusual, I will go through the right channels so that the courts won't force visitation.

Thank you.