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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
Then another part of me reassures me, that if I do have regrets about leaving him, then it is the very best thing for me to leave him at this point - a lucky escape rather than feeling trapped by some emotional connection that I may have no control over in the future.
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Is this the crux of the situation?? Is it the emotional connection to your T that worries you to the point of wanting to leave? If so, then I suspect that which T you see is irrelevant - emotional attachment to a T is the norm and you'll likely attach to the new one, too. Perhaps it would be worth it to talk to your current T about that and work through it, as opposed to avoiding it by changing Ts.