Wonder if your T gives you the same look mine gives me when I say "I am fine". What does fine mean anyway - to me it means good enough and in order to have made it to T's session, understood his questions and offered an answer, to me tells me I am good enough at that point - maybe I should start saying that instead "T I am good enough right now" - wonder what response that will invoke

I am wondering whether the times that we hate them are the times that they hit the nail on the head, or manage to wobble our otherwise controlled stance - maybe this is when some deep work is getting done?