You have done good. I hope that knowing you have saved others from the abuse you suffered will help you in your healing. I hope you will continue coming here so we can give you some support while you go through this.
Take care,
Zen

<font color=green>The snow falls on no two trees alike, and the forms it assumes are as various as those of the twigs and leaves which recieve it...so one divine spirit decends alike on all, but bears a peculiar fruit in each--Henry David Thoreau