After giving up everything to move half way across the world to support my boyfriend's career, I told him I was a bit depressed (no job, home all day) Which was something I knew would happen. After a few tearful conversations, he finally told me he doesn't see eye to eye with people who have depressing feelings (this is a very generalized sum of what he said). It hurt so much worse then the pain I was initially having that it actually shook me out of the depression and into "I am going to Kick some @ss in life with or without him" It actually made me love him less......So with that said I found hope in this quote:

Every moment that you spend upset, in despair, in anguish, angry or hurt because of the behavior of anybody else in your life is a moment in which you have given up control of your own life. - Dr. Wayne Dyer