I'd be seriously annoyed at my T if he consistently ran late or if he took phone calls or looked at his computer during my session. Luckily, his computer is turned off and his phone is nowhere in sight when I'm in his office.

The other client would annoy me, too, at least after having done it once. What part of "wait downstairs" is difficult to understand? When I go in T's office area, I wait for him to indicate that I should come into his office, even if his door is open and I can see him sitting there with no one else.

But I'm feeling a little crabby today, so I may not be the best judge.