It's fascinating to me to see all the different opinions and responses about crying. I don't cry with anger - when I'm angry, I'm angry. But I do cry fairly easily with hurt and sadness. I've hit on some deep, deep sadness in therapy the last few months and there have been a lot of tears. But I haven't cried in front of T, although my eyes have welled up a few times and I've gotten all choked up.

Somehow I see it as a sign of weakness - shameful, embarrassing. If I cry in front of him, then he wins.