I'm pretty much in the same boat as you right now (with T2 even suggesting BPD to me too, craziness)! Seeing all of the new potential Ts tomorrow (back-to-back) rather than spaced out though.. so I think it's safe to conclude you're the more sensible out of the pair of us!

I hope it goes really well for you, and you find someone you like and can work with, with a suitable contact arrangement! Let me know how it goes? I'll be thinking of you and wondering how you're getting on!