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Jun 11, 2012, 03:40 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Lavilov ~ What I see happening here is her suffering STILL from her past! I have a feeling she's STILL living out her resentments from her upbringing as well as her relationship with your father.  She could really use some therapy, and PLEASE realize that this has NOTHING to do with YOU.
I know you're getting the brunt of all this - but she doesn't see it. She's just lashing out at anyone who is closest. I'd bet she is very depressed, and depression is "anger turned inward." So she's angry too.
I know it's hard, but try to be patient with her, cause I have a feeling she's suffering. She probably wouldn't admit it to anyone -- but she sure could use some therapy. I don't know what would happen if you suggested it -- you know her better than anyone. Would she lash out at you and become enraged?
I wish you the very best, dearheart. I know you're in a tough spot. God bless and just do the best you can. (((hugs))) Lee 
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