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Thank YOU....... and YES I have found that person, my husband of 20 years, I just had to be willing & strong enough to stay around long enough for him (and I) to work through our own inner struggles and wounds, and now we must walk the path we have choosen and heal from the consequences created by negative actions.

BTW - I am not posting this thread to say or ask if "I Can ever Find that type of MAN" (but) rather to say does any one else out there believe he is real and does exist..... unlike the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy.

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I don't believe a perfect relationship exsists. I don't think you need to change your inner belief system about men, either. It's your husband that needs to prove he has similar values as you do. Through time, you'll trust your hubby again. Thus, the saying goes . . . By their fruits you shall know them.