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Jun 11, 2012, 04:37 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, you say your siblings act as tho "you don't exist." Have YOU contacted them? Perhaps they think YOU don't want anything to do with THEM. It takes two to have contact. Maybe they're waiting for you to make the first move!
Can you call one of them and ask if you can perhaps stay there? Hon, if you feel that strongly about wanting to get out of there, call one of them and ask for help. They are FAMILY, and family sticks together. Would YOU let one of them stay with YOU if they were in trouble? I would bet that you would. 
Why are you ashamed to be on disability? There is no SHAME in that! Why should there be? If someone is on disability, there is a legitimate reason! It's no different than having diabetes, or something like that! I've been on disability since about 1995, or something like that --- my spine took a dump and I can't work anymore. I'd RATHER be working, but I can't stand - or sit - for any length of time. And the only job you can get laying down is one that i'd RATHER not do! LOL
Call one of your siblings. Since your bf doesn't acknowledge you, you won't miss him anyway, right? Get out of there, and go where you will have more peace of mind. God bless hon, and please keep us posted, Hugs, Lee
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