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I don't think you need to change your inner belief system about men, either. It's your husband that needs to prove he has similar values as you do. Through time, you'll trust your hubby again. Thus, the saying goes . . . By their fruits you shall know them.

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Thanks.... now I wonder how long that might just be, for I have lived with the opposite for so long. My husband wonders too, for while he is trying to be patient he says he often feels hopeless for himself as a man due to the way I feel inside.

Is there any one out there that can help me or give me straight forward advice on how they solved this issue with in themselves and with in their marriage? - for while I know all the why and how's.... I am lost in the healing of self.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -