@ toastie
Well, she could have some anxiety because of me growing up plus her relationship with my father. That would make sense.
I have heard her before, telling my father that she feels she always needs to be on her guard around him. So I guess being in a relationship like that would cause someone to be anxious over a period of time. And thanks! It's nice to know. Since it seemed to me that most of my friends could talk to their moms openly.
@ Leed
Thanks, leed.

So maybe it's a combination of anxiety (like
toastie said), depression and anger? I guess those all go hand in hand sometimes? I would mention therapy, but she wouldn't be open to it.