You`ve got it, Minniemouse. It`s not all or none. Don`t `make` yourself write her, and don`t `make` yourself hold back from writing if you feel the need. It feels really good to let it flow naturally. Sometimes you`ll need it, other times you won`t.

Most important thing to keep in mind is that she has already proven that when you need her, she will respond. Trust her to be there when you need her.