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And while I know that there is no specific formula for trusting and healing (and that every one is differently) there still has to be a general guide line.... like with all issues / addictions that need to be healed, hence the reason for this site..... so with that I thought that maybe some one that has been thru the exact same thing that I am going thru might be able to shed some light in my darkness.

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Just a thought . . . I'm not sure all issues need to be healed for one to find happiness. Some issues go to the core of one's identity. Can some of the painful issues be let alone and then one can "move on" to a better place? Maybe that requires denial, which again is deception, which you said you couldn't do . . . sorry, I'm not helping again.