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butterflylady747 said:
i don't know this DrB from adam so maybe i shouldn't respond...but i do know the "uproar" that greenleaves had alot of us in last time she posted here on a regular basis......i would hate to see this happen again...

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I remember that as well. Given that knowledge of how things went before, what do you think folks can do differently to deal with any "uproar" another person might trigger in them? Why should the admins have to step in versus individuals dealing with their own responses independently? If you know that something or someone is likely to create "uproar" feelings for you based on past experience, what can you do to manage those feelings? What have individuals done for themselves that worked before? What doesn't work? How can we learn from this phenomenon so that we do not have to rely on the mods to "protect us" from unpleasant feelings?

gg