I feel upset at the thought that people would intentionally try and get another person's thread locked.
NEVER, did i ask to have this thread locked or boycotted. i said that i felt that we were in over our heads, i still believe that, and that we should step away from it.

from the get-go, people tried to talk to greenleaves about her issues with bob.

i guess that i really don't know how to help greenleaves with her boundaries. i tried. i don't have a problem with greenleaves..it's the thought of the hurt that is going to come down the pike, at some point, due to her "behavior"......and i see special K saying the same thing.

i was feeling that a lot of the posters here don't know what to make of her feelings......and my suggestion was meant in a kind way. drop it. it was causing disagreements and i thought, for the good of all, that just ending it was the kind thing to do......i still stand by what i said. xoxxo pat