Kate..thanks for replying..Ive tried to think of lies to tell people..nothing ever sounds good..the one you said about the cats is a good one!! The thing is when asked I always freeze up..so lying is even out of the question..I used to be able to lie VERY well..not that I am proud of that or anything..but..now..on this subject..I don't want to lie nor tell the truth..not that it matters..my mind and my mouth wont let me do either..I just clam up..and well..by then..the person asking knows that something happend that they really shouldn't have asked about..and it turns out embarressing for the both of us..weird huh!? I dunno..sounds stupid..here I am complaining about this..when there are still all these other still ACTUALLY cutting and burning..I will deal..was nice to talk about it though..thanks!