Since I've gone through the last terrible yrs with infidelity, naturally I feel pessimistic about relationships. I think potential life partners should make sure they're compatible in areas such as - finances, religion, sex expectations, children (how many and parenting styles) and general morals. People have to see through the fireworks infatuation time and analyze if there's real compatibility. At this point in my life - I would approach it like a business deal lol - thinking logically rather than emotionally. Since I live with someone who the world wouldn't be enough, I would make a sex contract lol. I never knew when it was fine to just sleep.