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Originally Posted by TrinityDancer
no matter how hard we try to be good,do things right,distract,engage,not isolate we always do it wrong
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Maybe your standards are just too high? Why do you have to be perfect?
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Originally Posted by TrinityDancer
mostly we try to keep it all to ourselves save for a few random times when it just leaks all over the place and then we end up feeling desperately ashamed and embarassed for weeks afterwards.
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Maybe change this?
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Originally Posted by TrinityDancer
be seen and not heard right?? be good and quiet and dont rock the boat just shut your mouth and nobody gets hurt.
we deserved everything that we got
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Do you still believe these things?
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Originally Posted by TrinityDancer
someone to love us unconditionally no matter what we looked like,how we acted and not get in trouble for breathing too loudly!!!!
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H doesn't love you unconditionally?