Have you got any evidence that T has been telling you white lies?
This has been an ongoing thing for me in T and I've told my T many times that I feel he is keeping things from me or not telling me the whole truth. Like other have said, his response has been- how would me keeping things from you help. Therapy can only work if we are both transparent. Why do you think I would do that. And his old faithful...what evidence do you have that I have been hiding things from you.
I never have any concrete evidence that T has said or done something specific that I can relay to him, but it is a feeling in the pit of my stomach that he is keeping things from me. So I hear you and although it just doesn't sink in for me, do you have evidence that T has lied to you? Like the others have said, I would definitely bring this up with T whether you have evidence against him or not.
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