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Jun 12, 2012, 09:52 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I know you are hurting SOOO badly.  And I know things are so much different in your country.
You are going to have to decide how much of this you're willing to tolerate. And also you're going to have to decide how much HURT you're willing to take from your community IF you decide to LEAVE him, because obviously your community probably isn't going to like it if you do leave him. I don't know why they would feel like that -- you don't deserve to be treated like this --- It seems that if a woman is unhappy and is being mistreated, she should be able to LEAVE!!! Perhaps they won't think much of it -- perhaps you won't experience any problems at all with your community -- I dont' know. I would hope not. But if you do leave, just be prepared.
You have every RIGHT to do as you please - at least in the "real" world. Women should have the same rights as anyone else. If you're mistreated, then you need to leave. Take your child, and go back home if your parents will let you. I hope and pray they will.
I wish you the very best -- I know you've been unhappy for a long time. Please be careful, and take care of yourself and your child! Let us know how you're doing if you do leave, ok? Hugs, Lee 
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