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Old Jun 12, 2012, 10:10 AM
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I don't see that these are "lies" as a matter of proof, so I think that it's interesting that you are choosing to see them this way.

It's very possible that T's next house call took less than 10 minutes and it's also possible that it may take him less time to get to the office than you think it does.

And your T may be continuing to work with a patient who either has moved to town or they travel occasionally to see him or they skype or phone for therapy. It may be that the DID patient has shifted in their internal system, or continues to shift.

But when my T has told me something that makes me think I've misunderstood a fact, I will ask something like this. I had thought her wife worked at the university in my town, but then she said that she worked at the larger 1 an hour away. I said, oh, I thought she taught here in town? My T said, no, she teaches at Y University. I said, Oh. I think asking in the moment-- oh, I thought you said the patient integrated into one before? gives him a chance to explain, because it may be your misunderstanding or your T's lack of clarity. I doubt these are lies, as that is antithetical to T training. They may withhold information, but lying is really not part of T. So I would be skeptical that you are being lied to.
Thanks for this!
rainboots87, Sannah