Thanks Jen, you know I have never had a problem telling people to shove off..maybe I will just pretend it is a guy hitting on me or something..lol..Don't worry..I will be nice!! MAYBE!! As for my step daughter..I dunno..my hubby and I don't talk about it..I told him the story five years ago when I will still hopped up on drugs..Now that I am Clean..I don't share those stories..I just don't go there..don't need to..don't want to..don't have to..until..I was just hoping maybe it would go away with her..we are close..she can ask me anything..she can tell me anything..some things just need to be left barried is all..she sees and loves me for who I am now..she doesn't know me for who I was..and doesn't need to know any part of that..nor do I want to tell her any part of that..its funny..but I would rather her wonder and not know the truth than know and have her persona of me change completely..