I hope I don't jinx myself with that title, but this guy sounded really great just now. I liked him right away. He was easy to talk to. I opened up right away. I told him about ex-T. I told him about the SA and admitted that I still have some unhealthy coping techniques that I employed as recently as um, well, Sunday night. I told him about the BPD stuff. I told him about my sexuality.

I told him about the transference with ex-T and how we never got a chance to work that out. He said transference is complicated but it can always be worked out. He said it sounded like my ex-Ts office was a great safe space for me and now I've lost it and my life's a bit in turmoil right now. (yes!yes!yes!)

He was impressed with how motivated I am and how hard I try. He said it sounds like I have a big heart and I love easily. He understood about polyamory/non-monogamy and my D/s relationships.

Finally, he observed that I sounded a bit like I was interviewing for a job, trying to convince him that I would be the ideal patient (which was exactly what I was doing). He said he would be really interested in working with me!!