I truly get what everyone is saying, but if t isnt chalking anything with me up to coincidense, why should i? Hes my only option so i should give him the benefit of the doubt, but how do i bring up these concerns in a non confrontational way. True he doesnt have to tell me everything but if he is going to mention something and contradict himself, perhaps a explination or just leaving it it out should be considered. I need to be able to trust him for the work we are about to start, but i cant when his words dont always add up