Your husband was home and saw this twice without confronting the situation? Or at least going out and asking what's up buddy? This situation sounds pretty damned weird to me. i would have been out there getting a definite answer at visit 1.Too much goes on to let stuff like this sleep. I don't know your house set-up with regards to proximity to road etc but really that doesn't make a diff. either. Ones property in these days we live in is sacred. Everyone knows this. Get it figured out Lynn. Nobody rightly does this and it seems not quite right.

By the way does he dress somewhat affluently? You live in an upscale neighborhood. In your opinion does he match how you would expect your neighbors to casually look? Hey it could be nothing but a neighbor who doesn't quite realize his manners or it could be just weird. in this world we have to assume that if a situation appears weird it may well be. If he's a neighbor than I'm sure he'd understand the concerns over his doing this when confronted by the police. Don't hesitate because of some potential embarrassment issue. If he has a 1/2 clue he'll understand right?

You don't need your peace of mind or your kids safety etc to be compromised like this. It's ********e for this guy to be doing that even in innocence.