Gretta, thank you again! I love hearing your replies. You are so understanding and its nice to have the past treatment from mom validated as wrong and not just me over reacting as she says.

There is so much dysfunction, i just dont know where to start in moving past it. You are truly a very kind person and i thank you from the bottom of my heart for your understanding.

Its so weong, it infuriates me. So many on here are such good caring people, we did not deserve this! Gaaah. Let me go cook dinner before the anger takes over me again