your invitation to be here more, came from my heart. (your snorts always perk me up.) i miss you, because i don't go to babble.....except for the occasional visit..as i did recently. and i just stumbled upon the "exile" thread. while i was there, i saw numerous postings about hurts and blocks and such. i have very strong feelings concerning the blocks that are dealt out there.

in all fairness, i did see things happen at Babble that were snipey and unfair when i was there fulltime. it was difficult to be there, at times, and i felt that a lot. my feelings were hurt many times.

i could go over there now, pick out a thread where someone is upset over the way they feel that they are being treated . i almost stepped in last night because i felt a poster needed an advocate .......but i decided against it and left it where it was.....

i don't think that there is a completely perfect online support forum anywhere.

i hope that we as PCers have learned something from this past day or two. and if a situation comes up again, from Babble, we can decide, lovingly, to either try to help or just ignore the thread.

i also hope that it becomes clear that neither site is a place to go and talk about what is going on at the other site with them. neither site should be viewed in that light. i don't see how that could ever be balanced out in either community.