hey rolan - you have options - lots of them. you're just not exploring them.

where is your motivation? your personal drive to be the person who you want to be? have you considered getting a job outside of the family business? you can choose and start your own career. what are you studying at school?

exercise is a great option! the ladies love a fit guy and it's a good way to make new friends. btw, the ladies like guys who have friends.

it sounds like your relationship with dad might be difficult. have you tried talking with him about it?

you are are the age where you have to be your own person. you seem to be hiding from that by sleeping late and limiting your activities. it's time to start building your life. get up and get out and do something so that your life is yours!