> GL you say you want to be supportive but some times don't know how, okay has your chance. My family lost a very dear loved one yesterday, she was 91 yrs old, we can't pay our respects because she's being flown to CA , honey I need your support

Er... The answer isn't contained within the question...
The problem doesn't contain it's own solution.

If someone says 'i don't know how to do accounting'
and you say 'here is your chance you can do my tax returns'
then that doesn't show them HOW to do it.

I'm sorry you lost a loved one.