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Originally Posted by Apteryx
I agree that you might want to try T2 for a few appointments - administrative issues are not necessarily things that should be showstoppers if you felt comfortable with the person. If you see what I mean. If it turns out that you two are not right for each other you may want to interview others, but give her a chance first.
I hope you're feeling OK. I can't even imagine trying to open up to THREE strangers in one day!
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Thanks for trying to help, both of you!
I understand where you're coming from with regard to seeing T2, however she wants a commitment for at least 6 sessions - costing £240 / $373 (USD) / 2,618 SEK - and I don't really want to pay that much money to test someone out and then possibly not stick with them.. if that makes any sense at all?! Maybe I'm just being a tight-wad, but I'm living off savings at the moment (unemployed student) and that's a lot to me. I don't know what most of you are charged per session though, so maybe that's really reasonable for 6.
I don't know.. I can't think straight right now. I had to sit an exam at 13:30 today that I didn't know I'd been entered for until I got home at 20:30 last night and checked my voicemails (basically, gave me no time to revise or prep for it), so my brain's a bit frazzled this evening!
My gut feeling is to make it work seeing ex-T (better the devil you know?), but I can't tell if I'm feeling that way because a) I genuinely believe it will work, b) I'm attached to her and miss her, or c) I don't want to have go through my 'story' all over again with a third T..
SO confused! All I know for sure is there's no way I can start over with a third T, see them for a while, realise it isn't working, and then go through it all again with a fourth T. I can't put myself through it.. it'll just push me over the edge again.
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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
The last one needs a smack upside the head though!
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And yes, she needs a good kicking! She nearly cracked me (I didn't really show emotion all day) when she turned around and said 'GOOD, who'd want to work with a selfish little girl like you anyway!?' (in reference to me nearly killing myself and ending up in hospital whilst seeing ex-T). Disgusting woman. I nearly cried my eyes out. Referred to herself as a 'life coach' too, rather than a T, so I figured that just about said it all really!? No offence if anyone's T also calls themself a life coach, I've just never heard of it before..