I never experienced these ebbs and flows with my previous therapist many years ago, so although I assume they are "normal" I'm not sure what to do about them or how to feel about them.

T and I are kind stuck. We keep going around in circles, revisiting the same stuff, with only the occasional insight.

I will be the first to admit that I like to go, go, go and that waiting for fate/God/whatever to bring things to light isn't my strong suit. But even beyond that impatience, I am feeling stuck.

I asked T if my love/hate relationship with my ED was masking whatever-it-is that we are stuck on. He said no.

For those of you who have been in my shoes, how did you eventually get unstuck? How long did the stuck-ness last? Is there anything I can do (or not do) to help me get unstuck?

Any and all advice and comments are welcome.