Ok, this man has done this 4 times. I don't understand why you or your husband just doesn't question him WHY DO YOU NEED TO WASH YOUR HANDS HERE? You could run your imagination wild here. It is really easy ASK and if you do not like the answer SAY NO.

He could have a problem with a well or something else, or he could be a homeless man, who knows at this point because you have not asked the question, WHY.
Open Eyes