First I want to say again I appreciate everyone's concern / suggestions and validate them. Open Eyes - I didn't know this would get so many supportive replies, so you may have missed my mentioning how the 4 times happened. When it happened the 1st time, I thought he was a worker at a house and passed it off as a man who needed to eat and rinse his hands....so I didn't mention it to my H - I saw him through the window. When H was outside, this is the 1st time he new this guy came and he thought he was out exercising ...it was hot and needed some water...he didn't tell me because he thought it was the 1st time. My H is friendly to people and he figured no harm done if he uses it and that's why he let him do it one other time.

I found out about the 2nd time after I told my husband about the 4th time with my daughter. I also understand Rose's post and concern. So if this happens in the future with my husband outside, he will stop him and ask in his own nice way, as to why, rather than be mean. I'll do the same if I see him through the window by chance. Kathy M. - what you said makes sense. The police won't get here to catch him at the house since it takes him 2 mins. We (H and myself) need to at least get an idea if he does have a house around here, so the police can deal with it in the event he doesn't listen after we tell him not to. Now my H agrees this is odd now that we both realize how many times he's been here - neither one of us knew he came before.

Tinkerbell - yes I called the police yesterday and filed a report. They can't do anything since I don't have his name or address. My husband can honestly sell an ice cube to an Eskimo and smile when he hates a person, so he'll be fine talking to him - he a very smooth talker. I will let you all know if anything new happens.