ad parts.... don't take this as offense, but you seem to put everything bad or uncomfortable on "parts". It's not you, it's this part and that part and the other part...

we are in therapy and here.... because we have issues. But having issues does not equal having no control over how we react to our feelings. We do... we just sometimes don't know better...


Your threads make me wonder if your real issues don't actually stem from self-esteem and lack of self-compassion issue rather than "unmet needs". You seem to have a lot of good people in your life... but you are try to fill something that others cannot fill.

How do you see yourself? do you like yourself?