Similar circumstances with daughter getting married and her brother, my son.....She did not invite her brother or her sister.......she wants no drama and inviting them would cause drama...a lot of drama...
Its your wedding....Do what makes you happy. You owe no one an explanation...and you owe yourself a great wedding!!
You can invite brother etc after the wedding for dinner at a restaurant or whatever if you desire...or leave it go altogether.......Some of us are people pleasers to a fault and we have to draw boundries to protect ourselves from ourselves sometimes.
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