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Old Jun 13, 2012, 10:09 PM
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I recently told my fiance about the past abuse I had never disclosed with anyone other than two t's. My t convinced me to tell him. It was one of the most incredible things to know he didn't blame me, to know he understood, to know he could tell before I even told him, and for him to still be with me, and not look at me any differently. It brought our relationship to a completely new level.

I am so happy for you that you have someone with you on this now. It's not you against your memories any more, you have support, you have someone who understands and cares, that's a precious precious thing. I am so happy that you have found this. While I am saddened at what you went through, I am happy for you in oppening up. It is great to know that some men really are that understanding isn't it? Take peace and comfort in knowing you are no longer alone in this battle, he's with you every step of the way
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Thanks for this!
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